15th February 2019 Amanda Edwards

Volunteers tell us what Valentine’s means to them

What does Valentine’s Day mean when you have been married for a long time?

Long-term relationships are alive and well with (60%) having been married for 25 years or more. The secret to this success, according to them, was to combine good old-fashioned romance with conversation, commitment and trust. For example, some two thirds (64%) say “I love you” daily.

They celebrate Valentine’s Day by sending their partners a card (67%) or going out for dinner (36%). A handful will send flowers (18%), chocolates (12%) or treat their partner to a weekend away (6%).

Their top three favourite ways to make their partners feel appreciated are by saying thank you every day, even for the ordinary things (94%); giving them lots of cuddles and hugs (82%); taking them for a meal (76%).

Their least favourite ways to show their appreciation include spa breaks (12%); showering them with gifts such as flowers, chocolates or jewellery (24%) and “doing as they ask, without question (27%).

If they wanted to give their partner a surprise, they’d choose a weekend away (55%), followed by tickets to the theatre, show or concert 49%, or dinner out (40%).

All said that volunteering for Explore was a brilliant way of publicly affirming their love for each other….

valentines rose

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We seek to support schools and colleges, usually with Years 10 - 13. Our work is consistent with the guidelines issued by the Department of Education for Relationship Education. We operate within the educational curriculum and syllabus for PSHE, Citizenship and RE in schools.